04 Dec

Feeling The Need to Rant

I try not to make this blog too ranty or political, but every now and then I just need to use my outside voice, and this is my platform. Yes, I ranted about gun control two and a half years ago and my opinions have not changed much since then. But I’ve been doing a lot of thinking since then about what I want to do about it.

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I could “like” and share posts on social media that align with my views, but outrage on social media is just so much hot air and nothing actually tangible. I could vote for leaders who’s platforms include issues I agree with, but I’ve been doing that for decades and even if my local politicians support the issues I support, overall the majority and/or oligarchs of this country have very different goals than I do.

I do think that we should continue to pressure politicians to pass (or simply enforce) gun control laws. Sure, background checks, limits on certain types of guns, and limits to amounts of ammunition won’t stop all gun violence, but it has been shown to slow it down in countries that do have stricter laws than the U.S. My vote will reflect this.

I also agree that this country is in dire need to increased mental health services and funding for them. What I don’t believe is that the majority of gun violence perpetrators could have been stopped by better mental health services. I sincerely think that most gun violence is much more a result of poor anger management skills. I have no problem paying higher taxes if that money is going to more and/or better social services.

One thing I think could actually happen soon is to lift the implied ban on gun violence research. In recent news, many doctors are lobbying lawmakers for this. I believe that in the long run, more research on the myriad motives for gun violence and mass killings, and research on gun violence as a health issue will lead us to better understand the problem and to better combat it.

Since it is highly unlikely that Americans as a whole would willingly “give up their guns,” I support the suggestion that gun owners purchase liability insurance for said weapons. Sure, illegal guns wouldn’t be covered, and home intruders and mass shooters couldn’t necessarily be held accountable, but how about the toddlers that accidentally shoot their family members, or the school shooters that use their parent’s guns to kill classmates, or the guy who shoots his girlfriend thinking she was an intruder? At the very least, the insurance could go towards hospital costs, burial costs, first responders, legal fees, etc. in a more direct line from gun owner to gun incident. Having a tangible way to account for the monetary costs of gun violence might encourage some to be more responsible gun owners, or to consider if gun ownership really is the appropriate choice.

Finally, I think that we as a nation need to start thinking long term and seriously work towards changing our gun culture. To this end I wish I knew how to attract the attention of Hollywood. Celebrities have as much, if not more, influence than politicians. Actors can refuse gun-heavy parts. We could enact common sense gun laws all day long, but as long as news and entertainment media keep convincing us that we are in constant danger and that we are all Bruce Willis saving the day with our indefatigable firepower, the short fused among us will keep turning to guns as the go-to problem solving solution. Lets stop watching TV shows that are quick to pull out a gun with the justification “I had no choice.”  Hey Hollywood: you are dynamic and creative — use that force to write scripts that solve problems and bring excitement without guns (or lets start with 50% fewer guns). Personally, I think use of cunning and martial arts is pretty exciting. How about inspiring creative thinking, hand to hand combat, and bloodless suspense rather than going first to shooting from the hip. (Wouldn’t it be interesting if disaffected young white men chose to practice parcour over collecting bullet proof vests and long guns because their TV hero is a parcour and MMA badass.) I’m not saying turn away from action and drama shows, I’m saying find ways to create that action and drama with fewer guns. It won’t be easy and it won’t be quick — but maybe the next generation will view gun violence with more disdain just as we’ve come to view cigarette smoking or drunk driving as socially unacceptable. Of course, maybe the next generation will view gun violence with disdain because they’re growing up with regular lock-down drills at school and that can’t not affect young minds. News and infotainment can work to change public opinion as well. I think recently there actually has been a shift away from giving attention to the perpetrators and putting more focus on the victims. This is a good shift. I saw a hashtag the other day, showthebodies. That’s probably too visceral a solution, but point taken.

Personally, I’m saddened by, frustrated about, and resigned to, the state of gun violence in the U.S. today. I don’t think there’s anything I can do about it. My thoughts are barely organized. My voice is small, but here it is.

 

02 Dec

Doors

Just a quick little post with a recent house project. Mostly, I’ve been painting white walls and ceilings which doesn’t make for good before-after photos, but does make the house clean and fresh. The living room is looking good, but the change is subtle.

There’s a bit of a door theme going on though. It started with my daughter’s mural room. She wanted a blue door. That happened to be in the same little hallway as the bathroom door, which I painted orange to coordinate with the orange niche where the toilet is. So, of course I had to do something with the master bedroom door in the same area. Now a formerly weird space with four doors is a playful spot in the center of the house.

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Our son wanted something fun in his room too. No mural walls for him; he just wanted plain grey with orange accents. But he did request a galaxy on his door. I started with black chalkboard paint that I had out for another project and used leftovers from the girl’s room to create a space fantasy. It was surprisingly easy to create with a natural sponge. Flecks and dots of white for stars really pulled it all together. Since I had used the flat paints I had on hand, I gave the whole thing a coat of polycrylic for protection (except for the back side of the door which is plain black chalkboard — perfect for his sister to leave him notes!).X Door

Most of the other doors in the house have been painted white, but who knows what might happen in the future!